10 Ultimate Activities for an Unforgettable El Paso Texas Girl’s Weekend Getaway

If all you know about El Paso, Texas is that they may or may not make salsa there, you are not alone. Before I planned a girl’s trip to El Paso, I didn’t have any idea what to expect either. But I love a unique girlfriend getaway and after visiting, I can tell you that this West Texas city in the Chihuahuan desert makes a great destination for a girlfriends’ Texas getaway. Before I get into what to do in El Paso, let me start with some fun facts.

Kim and Tamara in field on an El Paso girl's weekend getaway

FUN FACTS ABOUT EL PASO, TEXAS

  • Nicknamed “Sun City”, El Paso is the 6th sunniest city in the U.S. with more than 300 days of sunshine (NerdWallet)
  • El Paso is the only Texas city to have mountains as part of the landscape
  • El Paso is closer to the state capitals of Arizona and New Mexico than the Texas capital
  • El Paso is the birthplace of the margarita and the “Mexican food capital of America”
  • El Paso is the boot making capital of the United States

Girl’s Weekend GETAWAY TO EL PASO

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If you enjoy good food, wine, shopping, and lots of outdoor adventure, then El Paso is a perfect Texas girlfriend getaway destination for you! I spent three nights in El Paso with my friend and podcast co-host, Kimberly from Stuffed Suitcase and we had a blast.

WHERE TO STAY IN EL PASO

Rooftop pool at Hotel Indigo El Paso

Hotel Indigo is the perfect home base for an El Paso girl’s trip. While part of IHG, each Hotel Indigo takes pains to reflect the local culture and history. Located right in downtown, Hotel Indigo El Paso has a hip vibe with a fun bar that opens up to the rooftop pool. The decor reflects the locale, with black and white photos of Singer sewing machines in the rooms (the original factory was based in El Paso), Sun City murals on the closets, and other local artwork and decor throughout.

In an area with its fair share of value-focused chain hotels, it is nice to find something that has the feel of a boutique hotel. The rooms are stylish and extremely comfortable with plenty of space and amenities for business or leisure travelers (like conveniently-located outlets and USB charging options.) I was especially happy to find Aveda bath products upon my check in and those helpful make up remover towelettes.

TOP PICKS FOR EL PASO RESTAURANTS

As the Mexican food capital of America, it is a given that you are going to find good Mexican restaurants. And it is Texas, so yes, there is also steak. But some other choices may surprise you.

Los Bandidos de Carlos & Mickey’s

Kim and Tamara with margarita

Los Bandidos de Carlos & Mickey’s is a popular spot for classic Mexican cuisine. It has also been voted El Paso’s best margarita so we had to give that a try. Their margaritas come in all flavors — and sizes, including “Texas size.” The Texas Margarita is ultimately shareable with a group of girlfriends since the two of us could barely make a dent in our giant sangria blended margarita.

My favorite bite was their delicious queso dip and homemade chips. Usually, there isn’t enough cheese for your chips but at Carlos & Mickey’s, you are served a small platter of queso cheese with a handful of chips that look more like tortilla shells than chips cut for dipping. In my world, there is never enough cheese so, despite my lactose-intolerance, I dove right in.

Another favorite was the chili-stuffed shrimp, wrapped in bacon and topped with more cheese. I’m not sure I could have more than one but it makes a perfect shareable appetizer. I really don’t think you can go wrong with any of the standby favorites on the menu or the authentic atmosphere.

L&J Cafe

L&J Cafe El Paso tostados

Voted El Paso’s best Mexican restaurant, I’m sure most tourists drive right by and think it is nothing more than a dive bar. Perhaps the cars lining the streets might give you a heads up that something good is inside, but until you step inside this nondescript building and see room after colorful room filled with happy customers, you know that L&J Cafe is a gem.

Opened in 1927, L&J Cafe is now in its fourth generation of family ownership. The salsa there isn’t chunky, but it is spicy. If you like it, you can even take it home by the jar. If green is your color, green salsa is also available. With so much good food in El Paso, I had to limit myself from becoming overfull and only tried the guacamole, chicken, and refried bean tostadas (the guac was my fave!)

Salt + Honey Bakery Cafe

Salt and Honey avocado toast El Paso texas

One of my favorite surprises from our El Paso trip was breakfast at the Salt + Honey Bakery Cafe. The atmosphere is hip and fresh and the blend of southwestern and middle eastern flavors creates some interesting dishes. I loved my hummus avocado toast with tomato and arugula. It was fresh and filling while still feeling light. And good thing because then I blew the diet with a taste of the green chili and cheese hash brown. Could you say no to that?

Cattleman’s Steakhouse

On a lonely road outside of El Paso in Fabens, Texas, you will find a ranch that is capable of serving steak to over 300 guests a sitting. Cattleman’s Steakhouse attracts visitors from around the world and is more than a restaurant, it is a tourist attraction. You will want to go early to take it all in. From beautiful lake views and walking trails to covered wagons and animals (including a snake pit — eek!)

Inside, the tourist attraction continues with a gift shop and gallery of posters and pictures of movies that were shot on site. While the dining area is huge, it doesn’t feel that way as it is spread throughout multiple rooms with a casual, cowboy flair. Pricing is also surprisingly affordable for what is clearly both a tourist attraction and local favorite. Sides are served family-style with a pot of baked beans, pineapple coleslaw, and tasty rolls. Entrees also come with a choice of potato. Save room for dessert because they do claim to have the best chocolate cake. I’m not sure about the best, but wow is it chocolatey.

Things to do on an El Paso Girl’s Weekend Getaway

WHAT TO DO IN EL PASO

If you are looking for a Texas getaway that is full of outdoor activities and adventure, its definitely “all good in El Paso.” El Paso is an outdoor enthusiast’s ideal destination, with the largest state park within an urban center (Franklin Mountain State Park.) There is hiking, mountain biking, rock climbing, running, and all sorts of ways to get off-road. But when you want to clean up a bit, El Paso also offers wine tasting and shopping, both at upscale shops, outlet malls and its famous boot factory outlets.

Kim and I certainly didn’t waste any time exploring all that El Paso has to offer. Usually, with a jam-packed itinerary, I’m dying for some downtime, but our El Paso trip was nothing but fun.

Lucchese boots on bench

Boot Shopping at Lucchese

El Paso is the boot-making capital of the U.S. and you can find factory outlets for Tony Lama, Justin, and others but the cream of the crop is Lucchese. We were lucky enough to tour the Lucchese factory before our shopping spree to get a real appreciation for what these artisans create. While they don’t offer regularly-scheduled public tours, they are available upon request (but only on Monday-Thursday.)

After seeing the painstaking care given at each step of the production process, from cutting of the leather to the staining of the soles, it is easy to see how it can take two to three months for a pair of boots to be completed. It is also easy to understand why they come with the price tag they do — and that is just the regular designs and not custom orders! These boots are gorgeous! These men and women have an average of at least 15 years on the job and they are absolutely expert craftsmen and women.

After this eye-opening factory tour, the team at Lucchese was kind enough to present us with a gift certificate towards our own pair of Lucchese boots, which we promptly took shopping at one of their three outlet stores. It was hard to narrow down the options, but ultimately I just had to go with the beauties pictured above.

Downtown El Paso

Downtown El Paso is quiet but still gives off a fun vibe. For a city this large, it is surprisingly sleepy, probably because the city is really spread out and the downtown is fairly small. It is still happening though with fun murals, a minor league baseball stadium in the heart of downtown, theaters that bring in major traveling Broadway shows, and outdoor areas to hang out and host live events.

Wine Tasting Near El Paso

You may not know it, but in Texas, wine is big business, with over 500 wineries in Texas! While Texas wines tend to be sweeter to go with the hot, dry climate, you can really find all varieties. I love going wine tasting just as much as I love wine so adding this into our girlfriend getaway was the perfect counterpart to our outdoor adventure activities.

Our first stop was the lovely Zin Valle Vineyards, owned and operated by the Poulos family. While they grow their own grapes, they also use grapes from California and Italy to produce their nine wines. My two favorites were the Rising Star Red Zinfandel and the sparkling Italian Red Sensi Sangue di Guida.

For me so much of the tasting experience depends on who is behind the bar pouring. So to have a chance to meet one of the owners and hear their backstory is half the fun of learning about the wine. Zin Valle also has a lovely barrel room for private tastings and events, as well as places to sit outside and enjoy the wine (plus a friendly winery cat!)

For our second stop, we traveled a few miles down the road and crossed the border into New Mexico to visit La Viña Winery. La Viña is New Mexico’s longest-standing winery. We toured the vineyard and fermentation room with the winemaker.

Today, most of La Viña’s wines are sold through the tasting room, but they do also sell in the local Whole Foods. They have a big space out back where they host festivals and events with live music, food trucks, and tastings. They produce everything from dry reds and whites to semi-dry, semi-sweet, and sweet wines, although the locals tend to fancy the sweet. I have to say, as someone that loves big dry wines, I was surprised by how much I enjoyed my sip of their Caliente, a sweet wine with a mix of chocolate, cinnamon, and chili pepper.

ATVing at Red Sands

Kim on ATV

IATVing unexpectedly challenged me. Even though I went off-roading for hours in New Hampshire, I find UTVs much easier to drive than ATVs. My only other experience was in Iceland, and there I made Glenn drive. If you are going to go ATV riding in El Paso, Red Sands is definitely the place to go. Just maybe not on the weekend or holidays when thousands of people turn out to party and ride.

Many people bring their own, but we worked with Rent an UTV. They use the profits from tours to fund the rescue operations from people that get injured or stranded while riding their own vehicles recklessly (or intoxicated.) I found driving the ATV challenging in the sand but if you like off-roading, you would love it here. Rent an ATV offers a variety of tours from one hour to full-day excursions including dinner at Cattleman’s Steak House.

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